My sexuality
I call myself "bisexual," but that's still a bit vague. Emotionally, I'd have to say I'm "hetero" because I only fall in love with women. Too much in love, I'm afraid -- the attachment I experience becomes so overwhelming and consuming that it destroys the relationship, along with my quality of life -- and that's why I have no plans for relationships in the future. As for men, I just don't develop romantic attachments to them, and the physical attraction is limited to, well, one particular part of the male anatomy, and that only in the right context.
As I've said elsewhere, my interest in gender-bending is almost exclusively sexual/erotic in nature. Out of respect for fully transgendered people, I don't purport to speak for them or to have any profound insight into the TG experience.
But in the area of pure erotic indulgence, I do know what tickles my fancy...